HATE is the emotional ying to LOVE's emotional yang. Both combative & nurturing feelings MOTIVATE Humankind more than any other emotion or sensation. Without these two polar opposite emotions Humankind would never make changes for the betterment of our own kind.

Humankind, as a whole, HATES living in poverty so we work to get out of it. Mankind & Womankind HATES not being able to perform so we train to get better & better. All of our kind HATES being uneducated so we formally educate or school ourselves. Humankind HATES discrimination and an unlevel playing field so we fight for equal rights. As you examine the world through dark hearted glasses of hatred you see the driving factor of HATE that motivates Humankind to fight for a better life. Without HATRED for the current state of affairs we find ourselves trapped in, Humankind would never be motivated to CHANGE the world. Humankind has a LOVE/HATE relationship with HATE.

In 1975, the end of the Vietnam War festered a new kind of hatred that consumed the un-united states of America. The country HATED the military & corrupt political leadership. Imagine the war of words driven by pure hatred by those who refused to go to war calling their military "baby killers." The new age military members fought back by saying "we always use condoms" so in fact you long-haired freaky people are the only ones killing babies with abortions. (That was a play on words to show that the only way to stop hatred dead in its tracks is by making fun of it)

What wasn't funny was a battle of inequality brewing in the Marine Corps that was raging fueled by racial hatred & illegal drugs. With so much hatred towards the military enlistments were at an all time low. People who dropped out of high school in 9th grade were allowed to join. Judges were in the habit of offering plea bargains to go to jail or join the Marine Corps. To say blacks & whites HATED each other was an understatement. There were beatings, stabbing & killings between racially divided men who were trained to fight to the death to defend their so-called honor.

Nothing worked to stop the racial divide. Human resources classes failed miserably. This is when the insane need to HATE someone or something that consumes the brain came to the rescue. The military was opening up the ranks to women and white, black, latino & every other race known to MAN all came together as one to HATE women.

This HATRED of women serving in the military continued for years. Sexual harassment put a tail hook into everyday discrimination suits that ran rampant throughout the military. Woman were the target for MACHO MAN hatred.

This hatred continued until President Bill Clinton enacted, "Don't ask, don't tell" and surprisingly white, black, Latino men & women of every race, creed or color all came together as one to HATE homosexuals.

The shared HATRED of gays serving in military continued until September 11, 2001 when the twin towers came tumbling down. For the first time since World War II, the United States of America came together as one collective being to HATE terrorists.

Based on this historical evolution of directed hatred, our kind can conclude that humankind has a burning desire, if not a basic instinctive need, to collectively hate someone or something. It’s a disturbing human instinct.

Knowing humankind has a basic need to hate, we redirect every ounce of hatred in the world to hating the one enemy we all share, GRIEF. If Humankind does in fact have a basic need to HATE, then the logical answer is to hate GRIEF with a passion since it is the one thing we all share in common. Imagine a world where every living soul wages war against our common enemy.